New York Yearly Meeting
of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers)
SPARK
15 Rutherford Place
New York, NY 10003
New York Yearly Meeting News
Volume 34
Number 3
The Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) May 2003

SPARK (ISSN 00240591)
New York Yearly Meeting News
Published five times a year: January,
March, May, September, November
By New York Yearly Meeting,
Religious Society of Friends,
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New York, NY 10003
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Editorial Board: Publications Committee
Editor: Helen Garay Toppins
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New York
Yearly Meeting Staff
Paul Busby paul@nyym.org
Judith Inskeep judy@nyym.org
Walter Naegle office@nyym.org
Helen Garay Toppins office@nyym.org

Contents

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QUAKER LEADERSHIP IN THESE TIMES

(Silver Bay Sessions July 20-26, 2003)

New York Yearly Meeting comprises the entire membership of constituent monthly meetings, all of whom share in its deliberations. The Yearly Meeting exists principally to worship together. It is a meeting for the transaction of business and can engage in any activity or foster any work that the membership considers appropriate, including provision of funds and supervision for common projects. Through pooling efforts and resources, the Yearly Meeting can consider wider and more varied concerns.

Since 1947 our principal residential sessions have been held at the Silver Bay YMCA Conference Center, on the western shore of Lake George, in New York State's Adirondack Park. It is truly a beautiful, inspirational setting.

In addition to meetings for worship and business sessions, Friends participate in worship sharing, committee meetings, study and interest groups, Bible study, singing, swimming, hiking, and rest and recreation. Junior Yearly Meeting provides a program for young people infants through high school age. The Circle of Young Friends provides special activities for young adults.

The Sessions Committee encourages all NYYM members, attenders, and their families, as well as members of other yearly meetings, to attend New York Yearly Meeting sessions this summer. These are difficult times for those of us upholding the Testimony of Peace. Let us come together. Let us nurture and support each other in community.

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Featured Speaker

Rubye Braye will be this year's speaker. Her topic will be Quaker Leadership in These Times. Rubye's background and peace activities make her an unusual and interesting speaker. She emphasizes Friends' Peace Testimony as action, not theory. Having spent more than 20 years in the military, Rubye has an informed perspective on the Peace Testimony.

"I've spent nearly as many years among Quakers as I've spent in the military (i.e., 21 years)," she says. "Having come to know both communities intimately, I've seen the blemishes and dimples. These experiences, coupled with having grown up [as an African-American] in Montgomery, Alabama, during the '50s and '60s, have convinced me that we all need to understand how to live peacefully and together. Peace must start with self. Then and only then are we able to share peace with others. Unfortunately, I've experienced and witnessed as much violence among Quakers as I have seen among non-Quakers. Until this is addressed, the Peace Testimony is just an intellectual exercise."

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Bible Study Leader

Alan Kolp, of Baldwin Wallace College in Berea, Ohio, will lead Bible study this year. The theme is Biblical Spirituality: The Story of Paradise. This will include: Paradise; Paradise Lost; Paradise Sought; and Paradise Hope.

The paradise theme serves as an interesting spiritual context to hear again the biblical story of human quest for peace and harmony. It is a saga of delight and despair, of lost and found, and of fear and love. The theme of paradise will be used as both a reminder of, and a recall to, the deepest human desires. It is a story needing to be retold in our troubled times.

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Financial Assistance Available for Silver Bay

The Advancement Committee encourages Friends to attend Yearly Meeting. Part of this program includes providing modest financial support to as large a number of people as possible. Funds are available from the Operating Budget and the Leach Fund. Friends are encouraged to seek financial assistance from their Monthly Meetings first.

Friends are asked to apply for amounts based upon the least expensive accommodations. Friends who need to stay in more expensive rooms because of physical disabilities have also received aid. Grants are usually limited to 1/3 of your expenses. Priority will be given to first-time attenders, those people with regular contact with monthly meetings, and those with special circumstances.

The total amount of funds is quite limited: all funds will be distributed by July 7 and are not transferable.

To apply for aid, fill out the financial aid section on the Yearly Meeting Registration Form. There must be a separate Yearly Meeting Registration Form for each person (including children) who requests aid. A confirmation slip will be mailed to you by July 13 indicating the level of aid you will receive. This confirmation slip must be presented to the Silver Bay desk as part payment of your bill.

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START HERE if You Are Going to Silver Bay

This issue of Spark covers explanations about various aspects of attending Yearly Meeting at Silver Bay, gives fee schedules (which are also shown below), and provides registration forms for adults and JYMers. Note that financial aid is available!
      Who needs to register? Everyone, infants through adults. There is one registration form for adult registrants and one for Junior Yearly Meeting participants (click links above). A separate form must be filled out for each individual attending Yearly Meeting. If you need additional copies, print them using the links above, make photocopies of the registration forms, or get copies from your meeting clerk or from the Yearly Meeting office. Preregistration is expected of all who will be coming even for a single meeting, including off-campus attenders and daily commuters. Registration consists of:
  1. a completed Registration Form.
  2. a registration fee check made out to New York Yearly Meeting in the appropriate amount. Note: there is no registration fee for children under the age of 3, but they must preregister.

      How much does registration cost? See table below. Note that the costs increase the later registration is received by the New York Yearly Meeting Office.

     
    Until
July 10
July
11-19
After
July 19
Adults $25 $50 $60
JYM Youth
(ages 3-18)
$10 $20 $25
Per day fee* $ 5 $10 $15
*Applies only to those attending less than half session.

  
     Family groups pay a maximum of $60 until July 10, after which this upper limit no longer applies. A family group is one or two adults and their dependent children.
      Where do I/we stay at Silver Bay? You decide among the following options:

  1. At Silver Bay. Silver Bay offers rooms at four different price ranges. Please refer to chart for details about the rooms and the cost of each option. For this option please note your preferences on the registration form.
  2. At nearby campgrounds or motels. There is no camping at Silver Bay, but there are campgrounds and numerous motels nearby. Those choosing this option must make their own arrangements. See the section on Camping and Motels, which contains addresses and phone numbers.
  3. Commuting or other off-campus options. Again, you make your own arrangements.

All off-campus and day registrants must pay a Day Use Fee to Silver Bay, which allows use of the facilities, including the swimming areas, gym, art center, and boathouse. Click here for the fee rates.
      What about meals? Meals are included in the room fees for those staying at Silver Bay. All others must purchase meal tickets. See Staying off Campus for meal prices. Please refer to the section on Food Service for more information.
      How do I register children or teens? First read the JYM section. Use one registration form for each child. Be sure to include on the form:

  1. parent or guardian's signature stating that both Junior Yearly Meeting attender and parent/guardian have read the NYYM Rules and Agreements
  2. name of sponsor at Yearly Meeting if other than parent/guardian

 

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NYYM Registration Fees

NYYM registration fees (not to be confused with the room deposit for Silver Bay) must be included with the completed registration form for everyone (age three and older) attending any portion of the YM sessions. Children age two and under must be listed on their own registration form but are exempt from registration fees. Make checks payable to New York Yearly Meeting.

Early registration is critical to assist in JYM, NYYM, and Silver Bay planning. The YM office will forward your forms to Silver Bay in the order in which they are received until July 15. After that date, room reservations must be arranged directly with Silver Bay Association (518-543-8833).

Family groups pay a maximum of $60 until July 10. A "family group" is one or two adults and the dependents for whom they are responsible. All members of a family group must send their registrations in at the same time and must cluster together at Silver Bay.

If more than one person is on a regisatration form, your registration form will be returned. If you need more forms, photocopy them or download them: Adult or JYM. (These forms are in PDF format. Adobe Acrobat Reader, required to read and print PDF forms, is available free by clicking here.)

 
Registration Fees
    Until
July 10
July
11-19
After
July 19
Adults (out of high school) $25 $50 $60
JYM Youth
(ages 3-18)
$10 $20 $25
Per day fee* $ 5 $10 $15
*Applies only to those attending less than half session.

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Disability Concerns at Silver Bay

Friends who indicate special needs on their registration will receive a form to fill out and return to Ronald Inskeep, who will be the NYYM special-needs coordinator at Silver Bay. The form is also available here. (This form is in PDF format. Adobe Acrobat Reader, required to read and print PDF documents, is available free by clicking here.) The form requests specific information on your disability, which will be kept confidential. This information will help the Disability Concerns Committee be better prepared to meet Friends' needs. At Silver Bay, Disability Concerns will have a table near the NYYM conference desk. It will be staffed for one hour in the morning and one hour in the afternoon or evening.

There will also be opportunities for Friends to be Disability Concerns volunteers--at mealtime, driving a Friend to a meeting, or staffing our table. A checkbox for volunteers is on the registration form.

Housing

There are five mobility-accessible sleeping rooms, with bathrooms, on the first sleeping floor of the Inn that are reserved for those using wheelchairs (and their roommates). One-tenth of the rooms in the Inn will be reserved for people who, for any reason, find it physically difficult to room elsewhere. These rooms will be held ONLY UNTIL JULY 1, and then will be released for general availability.

Two shower/tub transfer benches have been donated to Silver Bay. This will make some less expensive rooms in the Inn available to those whose limitations fall in this category.

If you have a disability or illness that makes it hard for you to climb hills or steps, please make sure that you sign up early, and request one of the reserved rooms. Financial assistance is available from the Advancement Committee to help with additional expenses.

Friends who are unable to transfer themselves to and from wheelchair/bed, etc., and require special assistance with dressing, bathing, or other personal needs must arrange this personal assistance on their own and must have the person assisting stay in their room. The caregiver must be in attendance for the length of the stay of the person requiring this type of specialized help. Silver Bay will offer a special reduced rate for the person assisting.

Worship and Meetings

The people who set up the worship sharing groups need to know if you have hearing or physical problems so that note takers can be provided, or accessible locations allocated. Please indicate on your registration form if you will require such assistance.

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12-Step Meetings at Silver Bay

This year meetings will be 6:30-8:00 P.M. Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and 10:00-11:00 P.M. Tuesday and Thursday. Nurture Coordinating Committee has oversight of this but needs to hear from people who would be willing to take responsibility for one or more of these meetings.

To volunteer, please contact Boyce Benge. His contact information is in the Yearbook.

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Staying on Campus

Room Reservations

Send all registration forms and YM registration fees to the NYYM office. Do not send any Silver Bay charges to the YM office. NYYM will send your reservation forms to Silver Bay, which will acknowledge your room reservation and request a nonrefundable room deposit of $50 per person, which will be applied to your final bill. Do not send room deposits to the NYYM office. The balance of the Silver Bay charges should be paid at the SBA Desk before you leave. Silver Bay cannot guarantee housing or food for those who don't preregister.

Preference for rooms is given to those who stay for the entire week. Rooms are assigned in the order in which requests are received. It is advisable to register early.

All rooms have double occupancy. Beds for children may be added to the larger rooms. If you require a single room we suggest you find accommodations off campus.

If no rooms are available at your price, you may be assigned to a room at a higher price. You will receive prior notice if this is necessary.

A few double beds are available in the highest-priced rooms in the Inn. If you would like one, please indicate that on your registration form. Room reservations will not be held after 6:00 P.M. unless the room is completely prepaid or you call Silver Bay to notify them of your late arrival. If you need to cancel, call Silver Bay (518-543-8833) directly, so your room can be assigned to someone else.

Silver Bay room check-in begins at 3 P.M. on Sunday, July 20. Checkout time is 11:00 A.M. daily. Luggage can be left in designated areas after checking out. Those not out of their rooms by 11:00 A.M. will be charged for an extra day. No refunds are issued for early departures, unless arrangements are made prior to check-in.

All rates are per person and do not include a gratuity. There is a box at the SBA desk for those who wish to show appreciation to the employees .

Suites in Bayview and the Inn have a surcharge of $25 per day, in addition to all other charges, if occupied by fewer than three persons. Inn suites are 116, 128, 130, 216, 228, and 230; Bayview suites are 1, 2, and 3.

People age 13 and older pay the adult rates and can room with another person of the same age or older.

The Half-Conference rate is for those attending from Sunday 7/20 to Wednesday 7/23 or Wednesday 7/23 to Saturday 7/26. The Extra Day rates are for those who wish to arrive on Saturday 7/19. Silver Bay does not guarantee that you will be assigned to the same room on the extra day.

Clustering (staying in rooms that are close together) is required of all parents/guardians/sponsors and the children they are supervising. Voluntary clustering is available for family groups or others who wish to be housed together. Send your registrations together in the same envelope.

No one should go to Silver Bay without an advance registration with New York Yearly Meeting and assurance from Silver Bay that there is room for you.

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About Silver Bay

87 Silver Bay Road
Silver Bay, NY 12874
518-543-8833

The Silver Bay Association is a YMCA Christian conference center serving individuals, families, and groups. Through its programs and activities, the association seeks to strengthen the application of Christian principles, develop human potential, foster a concern for others and for the world in which we live, encourage a commitment for service, and offer opportunities for self-renewal, and for spiritual, mental, and physical growth.

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Food Service at Silver Bay

Meals for the conference period begin with dinner on Sunday evening and conclude with lunch on Saturday. If you plan to arrive at Silver Bay early enough to have lunch Sunday, you must make arrangements in advance to purchase this meal, which is not part of the conference package. Silver Bay has often run out of food because many people arrive who have not made arrangements in advance.

Silver Bay will provide standard and vegetarian menu choices for each meal. Vegetarian meals will include eggs, milk, and cheese but no red meat or fish. Silver Bay cannot accommodate "specialty" diets. A full salad bar will be provided at both lunch and dinner. If you are a vegetarian, please indicate this on your registration form, so that Silver Bay can be prepared.

For those who have other special dietary needs, it is recommended that you bring your own food. Silver Bay will provide refrigeration. A refrigerator will be made available for baby food, etc. Cooking facilities for those with special dietary needs (though not for campers) will be available in Paine Hall 1st floor off rotunda and in Spruce Mountain Lodge kitchen.

The Silver Bay cooks will not add salt to either the regular food or the vegetarian food. Salt will be available on the tables.

Silver Bay's food service provider is Prestige Services of Ballston, New York. Feedback has been positive for their service, food quality, and new menu options.

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Staying Off-Campus

ALL OFF-CAMPUS AND DAY REGISTRANTS MUST PAY A DAY USE FEE TO SILVER BAY UPON FIRST ARRIVAL

Off-Campus and Day Registrants

Friends camping, commuting, or taking rooms off campus are asked to give their addresses for the week on the registration form. Otherwise, please supply this information when picking up the badges. Badges are required for all attenders. Replacement charge for lost badges is $2.50.

People staying on campus pay for the use of facilities through their lodging costs; those living off campus and daily commuters pay for the use of the facilities through an off-campus fee, paid when checking in at Silver Bay.
The fees for the use of facilities are as follows:
Individual $13 for one day*
Individual $58 for the week*
Family $157 for the week*
*Please add $2/person for name badge

Meal tickets for the Silver Bay dining room can be purchased at the Inn front desk in advance of desired meals. The cost per meal is:
Breakfast $6.00
Lunch $8.00
Dinner $12.00

A special rate may be obtained if meals are bought as a "package," though this can be done only on July 20, upon arrival. These package rates are:
Six breakfasts for $30.00
Six lunches for $45.00
Six dinners for $66.00

If you intend to buy meal tickets when you arrive at Silver Bay, please indicate this on your registration form.

A name badge must be worn and a meal ticket purchased by anyone staying off campus who wants to eat in the dining room.

 
REMINDER: All Off-Campus Registrants Must Report to the Yearly Meeting Desk AND the Silver Bay Registration Desk upon Arrival.

Campsites

There is no camping space available on-site at Silver Bay. Campsites Friends have used in the past are listed here:

Wintergreen Lake Campsite, Hague, NY 12836; 518-673-5508. Four miles west of Hague, off Route 8, about 8 miles from Silver Bay campus.

Green Acres Campsite, Hague, NY 12836; 518-543-6645. 1/2 mile west of Hague on Route 8, about 4 1/2 miles from Silver Bay.

Rogers Rock Forest Preserve State Campground, Ticonderoga, NY (for reservations, call 800-456-2267). Eight miles north of Silver Bay on Route 9N.

Brookwood RV Resort, Ticon-deroga, NY; 518-543-6123; 518-585-7047. This is the old Brookwood Campground, which has been completely refurbished.

Nearby Motels

Silver Bay vicinity
(address: Hague, NY 12836):

Northern Lake George Resort (518-543-6528)
Trout House Resort (518-543-6088)
Hague Motel (518-543-6631)
Ruah Bed & Breakfast (518-543-8816)
The Locust Inn (518-543-6035)

Ticonderoga vicinity (14 miles north)
(address: Ticonderoga, NY 12883):

Lord Howe Valley Motel (518-585-7454)
Green Acres Motel (518-585-2274)
Latchstring Motel (518-585-2875)
Circle Court Motel (518-585-7660)
Belfred Court Motel (518-585-7000)
Super 8 Motel (518-585-2617)

Early reservations for campsites and motels are advised. You may wish to notify managerment that you are attending the YM at Silver Bay so that you can be near other Friends.

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